Alright, we're gonna talk about sex. I'm gonna try my best to make this not awkward. I'm not 100% comfortable with this subject so hang in there because I will still present some good ideas.
For bros who haven't had surgery or anything, sex is an uncomfortable topic. I haven't had surgery, nor am I on T. I have a strap-on. You have to have an uncomfortable talk with your partner ahead of time. But most will be fine with that (assuming they already know you're trans). After the awkward discussion, the fun part is next. You have to make sure you have lube or a lubricated condom. Obviously a strap-on doesn't respond like a normal dick does. And after this stuff, you just get to it.
I hate being naked. Hate it. I dread taking a shower every morning. I hate that I can't feel my skin against someone else's during sex. But this is being a transsexual. I don't let people touch me, if you get what I'm saying. I have more of a mental release. I don't really know how to explain it. When the girl (since I'm straight) orgasms, it's like I do too without being touched. It kinda sounds like some other transmen have this too.
If you don't own/want a strap-on, you can always do things with your hands or oral. I just never felt like that was enough for me to feel like a man. You know what I mean? But that's just me.
And if you have had surgery, I can't really help you since you kinda don't need it. You got what you need. This post isn't really for you.
Anything to add? Shoot me an email TheAidenApocalypse@gmail.com
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Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Friday, August 31, 2012
Let me see your hips SWING!
Sad fact: FTMs generally have larger hips than bio males. I know my hips are larger than I would like them to be (especially since I wear skinny jeans). I get quite frustrated with them.
Did you know that there are boxers that you can get that will slim your hips? The lovely website where most FTMs buy their binders, underworks.com, has those boxers. They call them "compression shorts." On that website, they cost $25.
I had been considering getting a pair or two in order to help my hips slim down. I will have to pay for my surgeries and t and everything out of pocket, so I wasn't sure if I wanted to fork over money for those too.
I needed some new boxers, but I didn't want to pay $25 a pair. So I went to Walmart to get some regular boxer-briefs. I was looking around and what did I find? Compression shorts. They aren't designed for FTMs, but I thought, "Why not?" They were only $7 and I didn't really have anything to lose.
I bought a pair. I think they are amazing. They might not give as smooth of hips as the ones designed for us would, but it's enough for me. They are Starter brand. They are made for guys to work out in so they aren't "free-ballin." They come in different colors. I believe they had black, blue, gray, and red. I got the red ones.
I thought you guys might like to know about this great opportunity to acquire some good compression shorts. I mean, there are Walmarts everywhere.
I hope this helped you guys! Have a great day!
Did you know that there are boxers that you can get that will slim your hips? The lovely website where most FTMs buy their binders, underworks.com, has those boxers. They call them "compression shorts." On that website, they cost $25.
I had been considering getting a pair or two in order to help my hips slim down. I will have to pay for my surgeries and t and everything out of pocket, so I wasn't sure if I wanted to fork over money for those too.
I needed some new boxers, but I didn't want to pay $25 a pair. So I went to Walmart to get some regular boxer-briefs. I was looking around and what did I find? Compression shorts. They aren't designed for FTMs, but I thought, "Why not?" They were only $7 and I didn't really have anything to lose.
I bought a pair. I think they are amazing. They might not give as smooth of hips as the ones designed for us would, but it's enough for me. They are Starter brand. They are made for guys to work out in so they aren't "free-ballin." They come in different colors. I believe they had black, blue, gray, and red. I got the red ones.
I thought you guys might like to know about this great opportunity to acquire some good compression shorts. I mean, there are Walmarts everywhere.
I hope this helped you guys! Have a great day!
Friday, August 3, 2012
Packing
Not all trans guys pack. Personally, I do. There a places all over the web where you can purchase packers. They cost money which you might not have right now. I use a sock right now. I just turn it halfway inside-out. Use a decent sized sock when doing this. Little ankle socks probably won't make any visible difference. I think it works well enough for right now.
If you are packing for the first time, you might want to do a bit of research. Look at pictures of men in swin trunks, underwear, and jeans. You want your pack to look realistic, not like you have a tumor or something.
If you are buying a packer, be realistic. If you are a short guy, don't get the biggest packer you can find! Get one to match your skin tone. They aren't super expensive and will work the best for packing.
In my post about STP devices, I talked about packers that can be used in the restroom. They kill two birds with one stone; they pack your pants AND make it so you can pee standing. They are more expensive but probably worth it over all. I plan on getting one.
Any questions I didn't answer? Shoot me an email. TheAidenApocalypse@gmail.com
If you are packing for the first time, you might want to do a bit of research. Look at pictures of men in swin trunks, underwear, and jeans. You want your pack to look realistic, not like you have a tumor or something.
If you are buying a packer, be realistic. If you are a short guy, don't get the biggest packer you can find! Get one to match your skin tone. They aren't super expensive and will work the best for packing.
In my post about STP devices, I talked about packers that can be used in the restroom. They kill two birds with one stone; they pack your pants AND make it so you can pee standing. They are more expensive but probably worth it over all. I plan on getting one.
Any questions I didn't answer? Shoot me an email. TheAidenApocalypse@gmail.com
Friday, July 13, 2012
STP Devices
STP stands for "stand-to-pee." Having an STP device can be really useful for ftm's. You could potentially use a urinal in the mens restroom. There are different kinds of devices. Some devices you can make at home. Others must be bought. There are two groups of the kind you can buy: packers and non-packers.
If you want to make an STP devise for yourself, you can use a coffe can lid or a plastic disk. Cut the lip off of the lid so that it is flat. The plastic needs to be flexible enough to be rolled up into a funnel or "u-shape." Figure out what rolled up shape works best for you and there you go.
You could also use a medicine spoon to make an Stp. You put the wide end of the spoon up against you and angle the other end downward. You need to practice at home so you don't have leakage. If there are rough edges or a lip on the spoon, you can sand them down. Fine-grit sandpaper should do the trick nicely.
Non-packers do not remain in your underwear all the time. You normally keep them in your back pocket and take them out as you need them. There are different brands and types available:
- Urinall is a lightweight, hard funnel. It is about the size of a large medicine spoon. It comes with a length of latex tubing that can be removed and replaced. http://www.urinall.com/home/
http://www.kristascups.com/
http://www.kristascups.com/
http://www.whizproducts.co.uk/en/
http://pee-zees.tripod.com/
http://www.shewee.com/
http://www.freshette.com/
http://www.campmor.com/
http://www.magellans.com/
http://whizzy4you.com/
Now, let's discuss the most popular type of STP's: packers. Most transguys find it's easier to get the STP packer because then you don't have to buy a regular packer and and STP seperately. STP packers can fool men in the restroom and locker room. You don't have to use a stall if you have one of these. They are generally more expensive, but I think they are worth it. You pee through a tube that runs through the shaft. You usually wear a harness with it.
http://www.likerealusa.com/
http://www.hg-prosthetics.com/
Mango products is another option, but I strongly suggest against it. People have been complaining about not receiving their paid orders and don't hear back from customer service.
So there are some different options for you to check out. Let me know if you know any other sites or if one of these sites is no good. And I have been getting quite a few page views, thanks guys! Give me any feedback and I hope I have been helping you! Have a great day :D
If you want to make an STP devise for yourself, you can use a coffe can lid or a plastic disk. Cut the lip off of the lid so that it is flat. The plastic needs to be flexible enough to be rolled up into a funnel or "u-shape." Figure out what rolled up shape works best for you and there you go.
You could also use a medicine spoon to make an Stp. You put the wide end of the spoon up against you and angle the other end downward. You need to practice at home so you don't have leakage. If there are rough edges or a lip on the spoon, you can sand them down. Fine-grit sandpaper should do the trick nicely.
Non-packers do not remain in your underwear all the time. You normally keep them in your back pocket and take them out as you need them. There are different brands and types available:
- TravelMate is a modification of the medicine spoon. http://www.whenyagottago.com/
- There are plenty of others, but I don't have time to explain all of them. Here are the links:http://www.kristascups.com/
http://www.kristascups.com/
http://www.whizproducts.co.uk/en/
http://pee-zees.tripod.com/
http://www.shewee.com/
http://www.freshette.com/
http://www.campmor.com/
http://www.magellans.com/
http://whizzy4you.com/
Now, let's discuss the most popular type of STP's: packers. Most transguys find it's easier to get the STP packer because then you don't have to buy a regular packer and and STP seperately. STP packers can fool men in the restroom and locker room. You don't have to use a stall if you have one of these. They are generally more expensive, but I think they are worth it. You pee through a tube that runs through the shaft. You usually wear a harness with it.
Here are some links:
http://www.peecockproducts.com/http://www.likerealusa.com/
http://www.hg-prosthetics.com/
Mango products is another option, but I strongly suggest against it. People have been complaining about not receiving their paid orders and don't hear back from customer service.
So there are some different options for you to check out. Let me know if you know any other sites or if one of these sites is no good. And I have been getting quite a few page views, thanks guys! Give me any feedback and I hope I have been helping you! Have a great day :D
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Therapist Surgery Letter
I found this while searching on the internet. It has taken me a really long to find an example of what has to be in the letter for surgery. I thought it might save you guys some time if I shared it with you.
[Name, address, and phone number]
Dear [ Dr. Preforming Surgery]:
[Patient name] is a [Patients appropriate age] year old female to male transgender individual who has established a longstanding and strong identity as male. He has been living as male consistently and on hormones since [date patient start HRT or social transition]. He has had [if any previous surgeries put here with dates if no other procedures remove this line]. He is now seeking [name of surgery] to aid in his complete medical transition.
[Patient name] reports a prior history of anxiety which appears to have been in response to the stressors during his early stages of transitioning. He was entered into therapy in [date patient began therapy]. At this time, he presents with no apparent residual psychiatric symptoms and is quite stable. He intends to continue his therapy regime which he believes has been helpful.
[Patient name] seems to have significant progress in his transitioning and seems very happy in his decision to be male. He has a strong support system that includes a loving partner and family. He has steady employment that provides his benefits and is attending school for his professional aspirations. His judgment appears sound and good. He has good knowledge of, and had the ability to follow to Standards of Care for surgery.
I met with [Patient name] for an evaluation on [date of evaluation] . I have no hesitation in recommending him for the procedure he has requested. He meets and exceeds the criteria as set forth by the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association. If you need any more information or have questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at [therapist phone number].
[Name, address, and phone number]
Dear [ Dr. Preforming Surgery]:
[Patient name] is a [Patients appropriate age] year old female to male transgender individual who has established a longstanding and strong identity as male. He has been living as male consistently and on hormones since [date patient start HRT or social transition]. He has had [if any previous surgeries put here with dates if no other procedures remove this line]. He is now seeking [name of surgery] to aid in his complete medical transition.
[Patient name] reports a prior history of anxiety which appears to have been in response to the stressors during his early stages of transitioning. He was entered into therapy in [date patient began therapy]. At this time, he presents with no apparent residual psychiatric symptoms and is quite stable. He intends to continue his therapy regime which he believes has been helpful.
[Patient name] seems to have significant progress in his transitioning and seems very happy in his decision to be male. He has a strong support system that includes a loving partner and family. He has steady employment that provides his benefits and is attending school for his professional aspirations. His judgment appears sound and good. He has good knowledge of, and had the ability to follow to Standards of Care for surgery.
I met with [Patient name] for an evaluation on [date of evaluation] . I have no hesitation in recommending him for the procedure he has requested. He meets and exceeds the criteria as set forth by the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association. If you need any more information or have questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at [therapist phone number].
Sincerely,
[Therapist name], [qualifications]
The 3 Magic Steps
There are three general steps to transitioning: thearapy, hormone treatment, and surgery. I will outline the steps and how to go about them. I haven't gone through them yet, but I have a job and am saving every dollar for it.
1. Therapy:
- You may be thinking to yourself "I don't need therapy, I already know everything I need to." WRONG! You can learn a lot through therapy, if you have a good therapist.
- Now is the time to make sure this is what you really want. Some of the changes from Testosterone are permanent, so be 100% sure this is what you want before you move on to step 2.
- This part won't be fun: calling to set up your appointment. You have to be brave and make the call. When they ask what you need to be seen for, you must tell them "Gender Dysphoria" or "Gender Issues."
- Depending on the person, this step could take months or longer. It's life changing and shouldn't be taken lightly.
- You may lose family. You may lose some gay friends if you are active in the gay community. You could lose your job. You could get harassed at school. The list never ends, but if you want to transition, just do it. Be strong.
- You will face challenges. Be brave and face them head-on!
- I will be posting more about therapy and therapists soon.
2. Testosterone Hormone Therapy:
- I have posted a bit about testosterone on this blog. Please make sure to look at those posts.
- Get the letter of recommendation for hormone therapy from your therapist. That letter will halp you get your prescription for testosterone.
- Testosterone is a steroid; it's not to be played around with.
- T is a safe drug when it is used under supervision and is controlled. So use the correct dosage and see your doctor as regularly as you are told to.
- The changes take years, taking more will not make changes happen faster. You could end up really ill or dead.
3. Surgery:
- Quite a few surgeons require you to have had hormone therapy before they will operate on you, but just as many don't require it.
- If you were planning chest surgery first, you don't need to be on testosterone (in most cases) before surgery.
- You need to have a letter from your therapist recommending you for surgery before a surgeon will operate on you.
- You can read about the types of surgeries in my "Types Of Surgeries" post.
If I missed anything, send me an email. TheAidenApocalypse@gmail.com
1. Therapy:
- You may be thinking to yourself "I don't need therapy, I already know everything I need to." WRONG! You can learn a lot through therapy, if you have a good therapist.
- Now is the time to make sure this is what you really want. Some of the changes from Testosterone are permanent, so be 100% sure this is what you want before you move on to step 2.
- This part won't be fun: calling to set up your appointment. You have to be brave and make the call. When they ask what you need to be seen for, you must tell them "Gender Dysphoria" or "Gender Issues."
- Depending on the person, this step could take months or longer. It's life changing and shouldn't be taken lightly.
- You may lose family. You may lose some gay friends if you are active in the gay community. You could lose your job. You could get harassed at school. The list never ends, but if you want to transition, just do it. Be strong.
- You will face challenges. Be brave and face them head-on!
- I will be posting more about therapy and therapists soon.
2. Testosterone Hormone Therapy:
- I have posted a bit about testosterone on this blog. Please make sure to look at those posts.
- Get the letter of recommendation for hormone therapy from your therapist. That letter will halp you get your prescription for testosterone.
- Testosterone is a steroid; it's not to be played around with.
- T is a safe drug when it is used under supervision and is controlled. So use the correct dosage and see your doctor as regularly as you are told to.
- The changes take years, taking more will not make changes happen faster. You could end up really ill or dead.
3. Surgery:
- Quite a few surgeons require you to have had hormone therapy before they will operate on you, but just as many don't require it.
- If you were planning chest surgery first, you don't need to be on testosterone (in most cases) before surgery.
- You need to have a letter from your therapist recommending you for surgery before a surgeon will operate on you.
- You can read about the types of surgeries in my "Types Of Surgeries" post.
If I missed anything, send me an email. TheAidenApocalypse@gmail.com
Monday, July 2, 2012
Surgeons
I will be listing some of the top surgeons for FTM surgeries. I'll say what they will perform (top, bottm, etc.) and contact info. I might add some pictures too. I'll tell what I have heard about each surgeon (if I have heard anything). I hope this list will help you.
Dr. Beverly A. Fischer, M.D.
Advanced Center for Plastic Surgery
12205-12207 Tullamore Rd.
Timonium, MD 21093
0r
2 Colgate Dr.
Suite 101
Forest Hills, MD 21050
Ftm top surgery
I have seen a lot of her work in photo galleries. It seems to vary greatly. I have seen amazing/perfect surgeries, but I have also seen surgeries that I thought looked very poorly done. The best and worst surgery photos I have seen have come from her.
http://www.beverlyfischer.com/
Dr. Yvon Menard, M.D.
Dr. Pierre Brassard, M.D.,
1003 East Boulevard St. Joseph, Montreal,
Quebec, Canada H2J 1L2
Phalloplasty, Metoidioplasty, Clitoral Freeing Procedures, Mastectomy
http://www.grsmontreal.com/anglais.html
Daniel A. Medalie, MD
Assistant Professor of Plastic Surgery
Metrohealth Medical Center
Case Western Reserve University
http://www.clevelandplasticsurgery.com/transgender-surgery
Dr. Raphael
1600 Coit St 105
Plano, Tx 75075
Ftm top surgery
John G. Gregory, MD, FACS
Deaconess Institute of Sexual Medicine
6125 Clayton Ave., #141
St. Louis, MO 63139
Eugene A. Schrang, M.D., S.C., Theda Clark Regional Medical Center
125 E. Forest Avenue
Neenah, WI 54956
Ftm top surgery
I was considering going there because it's pretty close to home and he seems pretty skilled.
Dr. Kenneth L. Stein
414 N. Orleans, Suite 209
Chicago, IL 60610
Dr. Alan N. Wilson
Detroit Medical Center,
573 Fisher Theater Building,
Detroit, MI 48202
Dr. Marci Bowers
406 First National Bank Building
Trinidad, CO 81082.
Ftm bottom and Mtf surgeries
http://www.marcibowers.com/grs/gender.html
Dr. Gary Alter
435 N. Bedford Dr. Suite 300
Beverly Hills, CA, 90210
http://www.altermd.com/
Dr. RE Moulton-Barrett, MD
2070 Clinton Av, Alameda, CA 94611
http://moulton-barrett.com/
These are obviously not all of the surgeons available. I just wanted to give you some to start looking at and comparing.
Dr. Beverly A. Fischer, M.D.
Advanced Center for Plastic Surgery
12205-12207 Tullamore Rd.
Timonium, MD 21093
0r
2 Colgate Dr.
Suite 101
Forest Hills, MD 21050
Ftm top surgery
I have seen a lot of her work in photo galleries. It seems to vary greatly. I have seen amazing/perfect surgeries, but I have also seen surgeries that I thought looked very poorly done. The best and worst surgery photos I have seen have come from her.
http://www.beverlyfischer.com/
Dr. Yvon Menard, M.D.
Dr. Pierre Brassard, M.D.,
1003 East Boulevard St. Joseph, Montreal,
Quebec, Canada H2J 1L2
Phalloplasty, Metoidioplasty, Clitoral Freeing Procedures, Mastectomy
http://www.grsmontreal.com/anglais.html
Daniel A. Medalie, MD
Assistant Professor of Plastic Surgery
Metrohealth Medical Center
Case Western Reserve University
http://www.clevelandplasticsurgery.com/transgender-surgery
Dr. Raphael
1600 Coit St 105
Plano, Tx 75075
Ftm top surgery
John G. Gregory, MD, FACS
Deaconess Institute of Sexual Medicine
6125 Clayton Ave., #141
St. Louis, MO 63139
Eugene A. Schrang, M.D., S.C., Theda Clark Regional Medical Center
125 E. Forest Avenue
Neenah, WI 54956
Ftm top surgery
I was considering going there because it's pretty close to home and he seems pretty skilled.
Dr. Kenneth L. Stein
414 N. Orleans, Suite 209
Chicago, IL 60610
Dr. Alan N. Wilson
Detroit Medical Center,
573 Fisher Theater Building,
Detroit, MI 48202
Dr. Marci Bowers
406 First National Bank Building
Trinidad, CO 81082.
Ftm bottom and Mtf surgeries
http://www.marcibowers.com/grs/gender.html
Dr. Gary Alter
435 N. Bedford Dr. Suite 300
Beverly Hills, CA, 90210
http://www.altermd.com/
Dr. RE Moulton-Barrett, MD
2070 Clinton Av, Alameda, CA 94611
http://moulton-barrett.com/
These are obviously not all of the surgeons available. I just wanted to give you some to start looking at and comparing.
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Surgery Types
I will be discussing a few different types of surgery and will probably add more information later.
There are three general types of surgeries:
1. Chest reconstruction surgery (sometimes called top surgery or male chest contouring)
2. Hysterectomy and oophorectomy (removing the uterus and ovaries)
3. Genital reconstruction surgery (sometimes called bottom surgery)
Within the Chest reconstruction surgery group, there are two subgroups:
1. Double incision/Bilateral mastectomy
2. Keyhole/Peri-areolar incision
Double incision/Bilateral mastectomy:
- best method for guys with large chests
- muscle growth and hair growth can help hide scars
- resizing and placement of the nipples make the chest more masculine looking
Cons:
- huge scars
- little or no nipple sensation
- may require revision
- areas of numbness
- appearance of puckering along the scars
Keyhole/Peri-areolar:
Pros:
- minimal scarring
- sensation in the nipples
Cons:
- nipple placement might not be ideal
- possibility of sagging skin
- chest may not appear completely flat
- may need revision
- risk of nipple loss
Genital reconstruction surgery:
1. Metoidioplasty
2. Centurion
3. Phalloplasty
Metoidioplasty:
Pros:
- unassisted erection when aroused
- natural looking
- no visible scars
Cons:
- too small for penetration
- sometimes the clitoris doesn't get big enough by using testosterone
Centurion:
Pros:
- natural looking
- erotically sensate penis
- unassisted erection
- no visible scars
Cons:
- too small for penetration
- sometimes clitoris doesn't get big enough by using testosterone
Phalloplasty:
Pros:
- average-sized penis
- realistic looking
- can urinate through
- can engage in penetrative sex
Cons:
- multiple surgical visits
- may need revisions
- expensive
- scarring
- pain
- long time for recovery
Personally, I am planning to get peri-areolar chest surgery and the MLD phalloplasty. The chest surgery will leave little scarring and that's what I want (also I have a small chest). The MLD is the best bottom surgery available. The pros outweigh the cons for me.
Even though I told you what I want for myself, only you can decide what's best for you. Even if you choose not to have any surgery, you will always be a man. Think very seriously about all your options before you make the choice. Surgery is serious and can not be undone.
There are three general types of surgeries:
1. Chest reconstruction surgery (sometimes called top surgery or male chest contouring)
2. Hysterectomy and oophorectomy (removing the uterus and ovaries)
3. Genital reconstruction surgery (sometimes called bottom surgery)
Within the Chest reconstruction surgery group, there are two subgroups:
1. Double incision/Bilateral mastectomy
2. Keyhole/Peri-areolar incision
Double incision/Bilateral mastectomy:
- usually used for guys with larger chests (usually B or higher)
- two incisions are made across the breasts, right below the nipples
- the skin is peeled back and the fatty tissue is removed, using a scalpel
- the skin is then trimmed and put back over the chest
- best method for guys with large chests
- muscle growth and hair growth can help hide scars
- resizing and placement of the nipples make the chest more masculine looking
Cons:
- huge scars
- little or no nipple sensation
- may require revision
- areas of numbness
- appearance of puckering along the scars
Keyhole/Peri-areolar:
- effective for individuals with small chests (cup A or smaller is preferred, but a lot of surgeons will do size B)
- incisions are made around the areola
- fatty tissue is "scooped" out
- areola might be sized down
- skin is pulled taut toward the incision
- the incision is closed
Pros:
- minimal scarring
- sensation in the nipples
Cons:
- nipple placement might not be ideal
- possibility of sagging skin
- chest may not appear completely flat
- may need revision
- risk of nipple loss
Genital reconstruction surgery:
1. Metoidioplasty
2. Centurion
3. Phalloplasty
Metoidioplasty:
- clitoris grows because of testosterone
- the ligament holding the clitoris is cut, bringing the clitoris forward
- it will look like a small penis
- scrotal implants may be available
Pros:
- unassisted erection when aroused
- natural looking
- no visible scars
Cons:
- too small for penetration
- sometimes the clitoris doesn't get big enough by using testosterone
Centurion:
- round ligaments are freed from the labia majora and brought together along the shaft of the clitoris
- it provides girth
- the extraction of the round ligaments leaves a pocket
- silicone scrotal implants are placed into the pocket
- a urethral extension is made by using a catheter, which will be removed when it is healed
Pros:
- natural looking
- erotically sensate penis
- unassisted erection
- no visible scars
Cons:
- too small for penetration
- sometimes clitoris doesn't get big enough by using testosterone
Phalloplasty:
- many different types
- Gillies: flap of abdominal skin is rolled into a tube to create a penis
- Suitcase handle: improvement on the Gillies, flap is attached to the abdomin for a few weeks for proper blood supply and then released to hang down
- Free tissue flap transfer: more recent and improved; a flap of skin is removed, nerves and blood vessels in tact, and transferred to the groin area
- MLD flap: skin is taken from the torso, under the arm; considered to produce the most realistic looking penis; more erotically sensate
- scrotoplasty: paired with the phalloplasty; labia majora hollowed out and silicone implants are inserted to create a scrotum
Pros:
- average-sized penis
- realistic looking
- can urinate through
- can engage in penetrative sex
Cons:
- multiple surgical visits
- may need revisions
- expensive
- scarring
- pain
- long time for recovery
Personally, I am planning to get peri-areolar chest surgery and the MLD phalloplasty. The chest surgery will leave little scarring and that's what I want (also I have a small chest). The MLD is the best bottom surgery available. The pros outweigh the cons for me.
Even though I told you what I want for myself, only you can decide what's best for you. Even if you choose not to have any surgery, you will always be a man. Think very seriously about all your options before you make the choice. Surgery is serious and can not be undone.
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